Let´s say we have a family, with one little boy and one little girl. When the girl have fallen down and hurt herself, we pick them up and give the comfort and say it is ok to cry. The little boy do the same and he cries, we treat the differently. Instead of picking them up, we say: “Stop crying, that wasn´t so bad, it will be over soon”. We tell them to not cry.

And the real question is. Why, do we treat them differently? That answer goes far way back, I guess…But I see a change in this, but it will take generations. And this is also a case why men don’t talk to other men (male friends) about feelings.
On the 1600's it was ok and a manly thing to cry, (males running around weeps like crazy). What happened after that? Interesting…

Will men lose their manhood if treated differently in the future? No way.

Some would say there would be more homosexuals among the males? No. I do not believe that’s the case at all, so give it up, if you have that conclusion. The thing is they have come a long way ahead to the point of dealing with their emotions.

In relationships it can be embarrassing or uncomfortable for a woman to see her man cry. Why?
They don’t only cries, also releases a lot of suppressed emotions that have been held back for several years….ouch…that must be painful!!!

That is something she do not want in her lap.

A women talk to her friends and get advice. Analyze it and go from that point she think is the best approach, and deal with the issue or the problem.

I asked a male friend, if he cries when he is sad.” Yes “he said, “I also cries when I seen a nice and romantic movie.”And for him it was a manly thing to be able to cry and be emotional.

He is from the south east of Europe. So his answer was not so surprising to me. But for that moment, he gave me some hope for the male species to evolve to better man.
I also hope that the numbers of young male suicides will drop in the future.

Soon more to come about this subject=)